No one climaxes unexpectedly from watching online porn. You decide you’re done. The first 10 minutes are thrilling but after that you’re not holding back from orgasming; in fact, you’re trying to remind your penis to stay hard until you find whatever it is you think you’re looking for, because you think you’re going to want to suddenly come when you find it, whatever it is will be so awesome you won’t be able to hold back— but it’s never so spontaneous. You have to decide the time has run out. This is why online porn is so problematic: there’s no natural end in sight.
And for most, the biggest problem is the drive: you don’t do it because you’re horny, you do it because you’re bored. With porn that available, you never get to really horny anyway in the same way Americans never get to really hungry.
In other words, online porn isn’t a drug, it isn’t an addiction, it isn’t a sign of deviancy or a trigger for disease: porn is junk food. It is a bag of potato chips you eat when you aren’t even hungry, and once you start and the initial “mmmm!” passes you’re all in, may as well finish the bag, you’ve ruined your diet/night already, start over clean tomorrow.
haha brilliant! you have a real talent for writing, i really enjoyed this.
ReplyDeleteThat is true, I certainly agree with every point you're making. But, like my addiction to junk food, I'll never change.
ReplyDeleteNever looked at it from that angle...
ReplyDeleteI really never have looked at it in that way. Some people have food, some drugs, alot...porn.
ReplyDeleteWell it's always been liek that.
ReplyDeleteRemember XXX = 2010 or Oct. 10 2010? LOL
Good post but I still don't see how it is exactly ruining society.
ReplyDeleteMcPorn? Wow. Thought provoking.
ReplyDeletewell said
ReplyDeletehaha i agree with your reasoning behind the force driving addicts to watch it
ReplyDeleteso true
ReplyDeleteSad but true :(
ReplyDeleteLOL I have always been saying the same thing...well not exactly the same, but yeah. XD Very true.
ReplyDeleteI never even thought of it that way! =(
ReplyDeleteI think a lot of what is done on the internet is because of mere boredom.
ReplyDeletegreat read, keep em cuming... sry had to be said ;)
ReplyDeletethis is so true for me, esp the bored part.
ReplyDeleteyour writings are great. keep it up
I like the comparison you made here. It certainly is true to some extent.
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ReplyDeleteYou know, porn isn't always a single player game ;) For those who it is, good point well made. You have a pleasant writing style too.
ReplyDelete"With porn that available, you never get to really horny anyway in the same way Americans never get to really hungry."
ReplyDeleteGreat turn of phrase Captain, like your insights
That is why I prefer free samples.
ReplyDeleteI recently heard about porn addiction, and although I discounted it before, I have been thinking about it, and I do seem to have the described symptoms.
ReplyDeleteIts hard, because I also have ADD, and I don't know where one starts and the other ends, and so on.
Either way, I have been married. And early in my marriage, there was a lot of sex. My wife had problems with her self image, and I guess it hurt her when I fapped/looked at porn. I think she didnt feel wanted. Over time, we stopped kissing, and then having sex at all.
I met a girl, and started going out with her, and I fucked her for hours and hours. But I really dehumanized her. I only dropped by to have sex, and would forget about her for long periods of time. Eventually, she left.
Then we got together again and everything was okay for a couple years. Then someone close to me died, and I got really depressed. And to be honest for a while I just sat/slept in the couch, watched porn, and was mostly naked, stinky and rather mean. We didn't have sex for a while, but I'd make her constantly blow me, and I'd come in her mouth, or face, or whatever.
Come to think of it, it was dehumanizing as fuck.
Eventually she looked up an ex of hers and left. And I dunno. Thinking about it it is possible that porn addiction negatively impacted my relationships. By the end of my marriage I resented my wife for not putting out as much as I wanted her to, and got increasingly violent/abusive towards her (if she was laying in bed, id go and harshly shove her out of my way), and I'd ignore her when she tried to have sex for not putting enough effort into it. And I don't know.
Why are you so afraid of losing soldiers? I have so many I have to dismiss dozens at a time to make room for the better guys. And Kaz dismisses guys automatically anyway. And you lose guys doing the deployment missions. Soldiers are gonna be lost. That's the life of a soldier. You gotta start thinking like Big Boss and don't be so scared.
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