Confessions of a Man Slut

After over a decade of being a complete and total man whore (my number is well into 3 digits not that I think it matters, but you might), I've put together some generalisations I'm quite happy making as far as most women are concerned. These are neither true for all women nor for all the time, and most of them are flexible even for the women that they are true for. Better not to assume.

1. Most women are sexually submissive.
This does not mean that they are into being tied up and whipped and treated like slaves, nor does it mean they like being submissive all the time. Generally though, most women err on the side of wanting a man to take the lead. They prefer to be pinned rather than do the pinning. They like their hair pulled, their asses slapped, even light choking. 

2. Most women wish men were more dominant with them than they are currently getting.
Men are afraid of their own strength, and vastly underestimate the resilience of their female sexual partners. They're also probably quite scared of crossing the lines of consent (and rightly so). Still, I have found that most women wish that guys would treat them more roughly in the bedroom. 

3. Most women are slightly intimidated to experiment with their longterm partners.
This applies to both sexes, but it's safe to say that if you have a longterm relationship partner they probably have some sexual interests they've not shared with you. Either because they're frightened of rejection/abandonment, or they don't feel you are the right match for those interests. 

4. Rape fantasies are exceptionally common.
This is no joke, but 'fantasy' is the key word here. It's so common it's ridiculous.

5. Women are sapiosexuals to a far higher degree than men.
At least in a short term scenario. Men are more likely to overlook emotional/intelligence factors with sex. For women they absolutely need that right vibe from you early on otherwise it will never work. This doesn't mean they want men who are geniuses. It means they need someone who gives them the right emotional/intellectual chemistry. Partly this is because men are by and large f***ing terrifying. 

6. Women are just as horny as men.
They absolutely are, but as above they won't jump into bed with anyone. If they are even a little bit frightened of you (and not in a sexy way, but in a rapey way), they won't touch you with a 20ft pole. 

7. Body image issues and self esteem plays a much bigger part in a woman's ability to be turned on.
Women that are suffering from a particularly strong feeling of body issues (say they've put on 10lbs and they've noticed it) will be much less likely to want sex. 

8. Women that are sexually dominant want a bratty submissive.
There's a disconnect between what men typically picture as being a submissive, to what most women who are dominant prefer. They want a man worth dominating, a bratty sub that puts up a fight. This image of the pathetic cuckold type you see in a lot of porn is not generally how it goes. If there's no challenge there's no fun, generally.

9. Inability to orgasm is more common than you'd think.
There are a lot of women who have never had an orgasm. Be glad of your D, you likely will never have this problem.