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lol"when was the last time you seen an incest dominate icy terrain?" --darkpaw1
"P.S. eat s***" --ThamosSo, if you liked her so much why did you start getting bored of her on the first place? Also this wouldn't happen to be your first serious-ish relationship, would it?http://i.imgur.com/tlw68dTh.jpg
Definitely not a furry.really hoping this is just trolling/joke topic but if it's not please just leave her alone. she doesn't want to talk to you, respect that and move on. certainly don't show up to her house in the middle of the f***ing night like a creepy a******.WAKE UP, MOOFOLKS!!
3DS: 2165-6738-9117MB2012 posted...So, if you liked her so much why did you start getting bored of her on the first place? Also this wouldn't happen to be your first serious-ish relationship, would it?
Because sometimes that happens? I have idiot friends that have claimed "Blah blah blah if she was the one you never would have gotten bored". I hate crappy advice like that. That isn't what you're telling me, is it? Everyone gets bored at some point, or they just get comfortable because things are routine. We make mistakes. I made a huge ****ing mistake. I am not going to make some total idiot buffoon mistake and say "Well, I guess it wasn't meant to be.", because I don't believe in that crap and I do believe that what we had can be re-established.Currently climbing: 5.11 on lead, 5.12- on top rope, V5 boulderYou could of talked to her when you started to get bored with the relationship instead of ghosting her. Actually try to work out the problems with the relationship instead of jumping ship.ChromeClimber posted..., I just need to know what to do next.
it was answered
move on :)get ready for a backside attack ;)organicbamf posted...giantblimpN7 posted...
This is actually decent trolling
yeh i'm getting that vibe now tbh
lol
This to be honest, but I'll throw in a serious response for the hell of it:
She's moved on. The chances she will come back to you after this long are infinitesimal at the best of it. The fact that she doesn't so much as respond to your texts shows just how little she wants to be with you; hell, when it comes to even just friends or acquaintances, people tend to reply eventually. Weeks, months? She doesn't want to be with you in any way. There's nothing you can do to change it - she's built a wall, and there's nothing you can do to take it down.
This is life. We all screw up and make mistakes. She might have been the one, but probably not. And odds are you'll find someone else. But you're only holding yourself back by dwelling on the past. She's already moved on, may well be dating someone else. You need to as well. Doesn't matter if she might be your future wife - she clearly doesn't see you as her future husband, and will likely never see you that way again.
You should learn a lesson from this instead of trying to undo the past - don't f*** up a relationship by becoming distant. Life is unfair, we make mistakes, and sometimes we just can't undo them. Life sucks, deal with it. You have to move on.
If anything, you're digging yourself a deeper hole by pestering her and will certainly do it by visiting her in the middle of the night. People who can't take a hint that they aren't wanted around do nothing but annoy people, and the other instance will likely result in harm to yourself or incarceration, probably.''I see now that the circumstances of one's birth are irrelevant. It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are.'' - MewtwoTmaster148 posted...You could of talked to her when you started to get bored with the relationship instead of ghosting her. Actually try to work out the problems with the relationship instead of jumping ship.
Underrated advice for relationships in general. Communication is absolutely key.''I see now that the circumstances of one's birth are irrelevant. It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are.'' - MewtwoChromeClimber posted...I'm trying to fight for her because I care about her
No you don't. You care about yourself, which is why your relationship failed in the first place and why you can't understand that she is better off without you. You're only using her to satisfy yourself, and the moment she's no longer interesting to you, you stop caring, not realizing that this is an actual person who might have developed feelings for you. You don't get to just go back and undo what you've done, because it's not about what you've done, it's about who you are. She waited some time to give herself to you sexually because she wanted to make sure you weren't just after her for sex, and she didn't want to feel used just so a man could get off because of her. You went and completely ignored her a few months after you'd had sex with her. How do you think she felt? You don't even give a s***, all you care about is how much you want her now. She probably felt like trash to have been so foolish to trust you, she probably felt like all she was was an object of pleasure for a selfish man like yourself, she probably felt like all men just want to use her, and that she's only as valuable as the pleasure she gives a man...
I pity you TC, and I feel sorry for this girl, I hope you never see her again and that you examine the man you've become, because you don't have to steal or murder to be a wicked man. Selfishness is the root of all evil.Dear lord, Spyker just ripped his entire life apart in nothing more than a few paragraphs. Ouch... - RexSilverYou sound like a completely self-centered and narcissistic scumbag and you are likely too toxic to ever be a healthy partner."Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100sChromeClimber posted...Because sometimes that happens? I have idiot friends that have claimed "Blah blah blah if she was the one you never would have gotten bored". I hate crappy advice like that. That isn't what you're telling me, is it? Everyone gets bored at some point, or they just get comfortable because things are routine. We make mistakes. I made a huge ****ing mistake. I am not going to make some total idiot buffoon mistake and say "Well, I guess it wasn't meant to be.", because I don't believe in that crap and I do believe that what we had can be re-established.
Dude, take a chill pill. I didn't mean it like that, however that might be a good point, I meant there is like a very big difference in being comfortable in a relationship and being bored of someone.http://i.imgur.com/tlw68dTh.jpg
Definitely not a furry.tbh if this topic is real you might be a straight up sociopath"Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100sYou know do f***ed up right?
America will never fall to liberals or communist invasion!It's time to let it go. Otherwise you'll be seeing a restraining order in the near futureI used this topic to type up a final message.
"I ruined our relationship by ghosting you for absolutely no reason. I hate that you won't talk to me, it frustrates me to no end and it hurts. But I don't have anyone to blame fbut myself. I was a complete and total selfish idiot and I screwed up. I can't hold it against you, I just wish that you would either trust or care about me enough to realize it wasn't my finest hour and I made a mistake. I should have talked to you when things first started going wrong. I waited until it got worse and now I have to live with knowing I pushed someone special out of my life. I can only hope you aren't just outright laughing at how pitiful this all sounds, but I'd probably deserve that too. I'm sorry."
I hope this works, you guys.Currently climbing: 5.11 on lead, 5.12- on top rope, V5 boulderChromeClimber posted...Hi I'm VandorLee I clung to the first fatso that was willing to grind on me while we were both drunk, and we've been together for a strong 8 months. Since I've got a good thing going and I don't plan on screwing up, that makes it okay for me to look down on shorter relationships.
Kid, you made some really stupid decisions. Now you have to live with the consequences. Stop trying to drag her down and stop being so clingy.Voted best user on CE 2012 - 2016
Current e-argument streak: 9005 wins. 0 losses.Also, why are people using such hateful phrases like narcissist and sociopath when all I did was get bored in a relationship and actually realize that I screwed up? I am admitting I screwed up. I am trying to own up to it. Why all this hostility?Currently climbing: 5.11 on lead, 5.12- on top rope, V5 boulder... And oh course he doesn't take ANY of the advice given to him.http://i.imgur.com/tlw68dTh.jpg
Definitely not a furry.ChromeClimber posted...Also, why are people using such hateful phrases like narcissist and sociopath when all I did was get bored in a relationship and actually realize that I screwed up? I am admitting I screwed up. I am trying to own up to it. Why all this hostility?
America will never fall to liberals or communist invasion!ChromeClimber posted...I used this topic to type up a final message.
"I ruined our relationship by ghosting you for absolutely no reason. I hate that you won't talk to me, it frustrates me to no end and it hurts. But I don't have anyone to blame fbut myself. I was a complete and total selfish idiot and I screwed up. I can't hold it against you, I just wish that you would either trust or care about me enough to realize it wasn't my finest hour and I made a mistake. I should have talked to you when things first started going wrong. I waited until it got worse and now I have to live with knowing I pushed someone special out of my life. I can only hope you aren't just outright laughing at how pitiful this all sounds, but I'd probably deserve that too. I'm sorry."
I hope this works, you guys.
I hope that even if it doesn't work you learn a lesson. Good for you to actually own up to it, instead of just denying your wrongs. I wish you well.Dear lord, Spyker just ripped his entire life apart in nothing more than a few paragraphs. Ouch... - RexSilverYou literally called it a mistake. You're still not owning up. It was a cowardly, stupid, and hurtful choice. You absolutely chose to do that. And you think you should be forgiven because you recognize what you did was wrong half a year later and feel lonely? Lol.Voted best user on CE 2012 - 2016
Current e-argument streak: 9005 wins. 0 losses.ChromeClimber posted...im not 13 posted...
She's gone breh
You f'd up and she's probably banging someone else now
It happens. Learn from it and move on. Don't act desperate it only makes things worse.
I know she is, and honestly, I wouldn't mind if she wanted to keep her bf and just see me on the side while she considered it. I don't care at this point, I love her and I want her back. I know if she just SEES me she will come to her senses and leave whoever she's currently with.
hoLEE s*** broAlso, why are people using such hateful phrases like narcissist and sociopath when all I did was get bored in a relationship and actually realize that I screwed up? I am admitting I screwed up. I am trying to own up to it. Why all this hostility?
Probably because:
- You're only concerned with your happiness, hers be damned. You're only thinking of yourself.
- You come here for advice, act combative, and literally ignore everyone who tells you what you should be doing - moving on - unless it feeds into your delusion. You want us to tell you that you can get her back. You don't want advice, unless it pertains to getting her back. You want an idealistic echo chamber as opposed to reality.''I see now that the circumstances of one's birth are irrelevant. It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are.'' - MewtwoThe people in this topic are sick.Peace....love....and Understanding
- The Three Fundamental Elements of Pacifism.eggcorn posted...ChromeClimber posted...
im not 13 posted...
She's gone breh
You f'd up and she's probably banging someone else now
It happens. Learn from it and move on. Don't act desperate it only makes things worse.
I know she is, and honestly, I wouldn't mind if she wanted to keep her bf and just see me on the side while she considered it. I don't care at this point, I love her and I want her back. I know if she just SEES me she will come to her senses and leave whoever she's currently with.
hoLEE s*** bro
America will never fall to liberals or communist invasion!Wow, TC is a stage 5 clinger.Rumble Roses. Someone enters the room. Them: O_O Me: What?! I always play games without my pants on!- Inmate 922335
#ImpeachTrumpThis is hilarious if trolling, because he's actually pretty good at it. And scary if it's not, because he's going to be wearing this girls face within a week at this rate.Game over man, game over!-Hudson, AliensAny updates on the situation, TC?Peace....love....and Understanding
- The Three Fundamental Elements of Pacifism.Tmaster148 posted...I think you need to stop trying to contact her and go do other things. It sounds like she's trying to move on.
This, though honestly I think she has already moved on. I'm in a similar situation but with a friend. Sucks to know you screwed things up and the other person isn't interested in reconciliation, but you gotta accept that and try to move on :/This is my sig.- Boards
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